Reply: The Chief Staff and Chief Elected Officer Partnership
By Henry L. Ernstthal, CAE, Ernstthal and Associates, Washington

Susan, you almost got it right. The CSE/CEO relationship should be based on mutual respect and clear well-understood individual roles and responsibilities. But by urging friendship you have crossed over the reasonableness line.

Neither the Chief Elected Officer not any member of the Board should be thought of as your friend. They have conflicting interests. If you are not serving the association well, they will fire you, and so they should. Their friendship with you just complicates things for them and for the needs of the institution to which they have a serious fiduciary responsibility.

Equally problematic is the impact it has on the CSE as he or she makes his or her own decisions. You and I have no doubt known execs who have let their affection and commitment to the association blur their judgment and keep them from either confronting problems or individuals or avoid seeking career opportunities and then be badly treated by their leadership.

THE ASSOCIATION’S LEADERSHIP ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. THEY ARE YOUR EMPLOYERS.

Does that mean you should not be friendly with them? Of course not. Knowing their background, family, hobbies, likes and dislikes, how they manage people at their place of work, it helps you to understand the individual and manage the relationship for your joint and mutual benefit.

So, sure, be friendly. But don’t get so emotionally invested that it clouds your judgment. And don’t start thinking that friendship will protect your job when push comes to shove.

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